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Troika

A road trip to California’s Central Coast becomes a modern-day Odyssey, chronicling how we get from where we were to where we are—and what we carry with us along the way.

Praise for Troika:

“In a voice at once fiercely honest and exquisitely tender, Smith explores what we inherit from our foremothers, what we pass down to our daughters, and the power we hold to forge new stories together.  Like the best of road trips, Troika winds through shimmering vistas and surprising detours, delivering us, ultimately, to the possibilities that lie in our hearts. A wholly delightful journey from beginning to end.” 

—Nicole Graev Lipson, USA Today bestselling author of Mothers and Other Fictional Characters

“Heartfelt, moving, and, oh yes, very, very funny.”

—Alina Adams, NYT bestselling author of The Nesting Dolls and Go On Pretending

“An eloquent meditation on intergenerational legacies, memories of a left-behind homeland, and coincidences that stitch our lives together.”

—Elizabeth Rynecki, author, documentary filmmaker, and podcaster

“[a] charming, bittersweet memoir.”
—Publishers Weekly

The Golden Ticket: A Life in College Admissions Essays

Told through a series of responses to college application essay prompts, this award-winning memoir explores ambition, motherhood, and meritocracy in a world where ambition is everything—until it isn’t.

Awards:

  • 2024 CiBA SEA Short Awards 1st Place Winner
  • 2024 IPPY Awards Silver Winner in Essay
  • 2023 Sarton Awards Gilda Prize Winner
  • 2023 Best Book Awards Winner in Nonfiction: Creative
  • 2023 Best Book Awards Finalist in Best New Nonfiction and Parenting & Family

Praise for The Golden Ticket:

“Irena Smith’s captivating and smart memoir . . . can serve as a potential antidote to the fevered belief that being admitted to an elite college will spell the difference between a successful life vs. a doomed future. That’s a fever that’s hard to break for many families, but Smith’s highly personal, literate, sometimes snarky account might just do the trick.”

—Forbes

“With humor and pathos, Irena Smith draws the reader behind the curtain of college admissions, where life is more complicated than any kid’s file.”

—Malcolm Harris, author of Palo Alto

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Personal Statements

Essays about being a person in the world with a focus on highly localized domestic disturbances: the drama of folding a fitted sheet, refrigerator turf wars, and the petty irritations of close proximity to the people we love most.

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The Curmudgeon’s Guide to College Admissions

Applying to college is not an emergency and other practical advice for parents of high schoolers.

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Writing Excerpt:

We all travel some distance to become who we become. Many years ago, my parents traveled 9,084 miles from Moscow to Vienna to Rome to New York to San Francisco with four suitcases and nine-year-old me. For the first year or two after we arrived, my success was measured by how quickly I lost my Russian accent and my parents’ by how quickly they found jobs and bought a car and a color television and eventually a house in the suburbs. After my oldest son was diagnosed with autism, my husband and I measured success using the Denver Developmental Inventory that hung on our refrigerator, tracking Jordan’s ability to answer yes/no questions, draw a person with more than three parts, and identify colors. I know parents who stringently monitor their children’s academic performance on online school platforms (for the record, I consider all such platforms the devil’s work). We measure winning in seconds and yards and degrees and grades and possessions, but when all is said and done, what do we win when we win?

—Irena Smith, “Distance Traveled: Is There a Unit for Measuring Success?”, The Curmudgeon’s Guide to College Admissions

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